{"id":3700,"date":"2023-05-18T15:36:22","date_gmt":"2023-05-18T10:06:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gavel.cmb.ac.lk\/?p=3700"},"modified":"2023-06-13T19:25:21","modified_gmt":"2023-06-13T13:55:21","slug":"how-to-flee-reality-through-humour-a-guide-to-humorous-speeches","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gavel.cmb.ac.lk\/?p=3700","title":{"rendered":"How to flee reality through humour: A guide to humorous speeches"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>A humorous speech is like a usual speech, just slightly ( or quite!) different. In humorous<br>speeches, the main purpose of the speech should be to ensure that the audience has fun and<br>enjoys the speech, but otherwise, it would be just like a regular speech. There has to be a proper<br>structure and it is always advisable to leave the audience behind with a little take-home message.<br>When you are delivering a speech to an audience, and a humorous one at that, a lot of things<br>have to be done right to create any sort of lasting impact through your words. Some tips would<br>be helpful in this regard so, here are a few steps that you can follow when writing humorous<br>speeches.<br>The most important step is the first: selecting a theme for your speech. It&#8217;s like doing a SWOT<br>analysis. You select a few different themes that you like, or that you&#8217;re comfortable with, which<br>are definitely not offensive, and do a small analysis to identify what theme will be the best to<br>base your speech on. It&#8217;s very important to select a theme that you&#8217;re not only comfortable with<br>but that you can also relate your stories to. For example, you could select love, or your romantic<br>life. This theme has to be something you and others would be comfortable with, and something<br>you can build upon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>So once you&#8217;ve selected your theme that you&#8217;re going to be talking about, the next thing is to<br>brainstorm stories and ideas. A theme is so large, there can be a lot of sub themes in it, so if its<br>love for instance, you can even write the speech about your own experience in love, how you<br>failed or succeeded at it, and once you select the sub theme you can gather some interesting<br>stories that happened to you about this theme. So there, you brainstorm some thoughts and<br>stories and keep them in hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>Next, think about the message that you want to give to the audience. Now the take home<br>message is not the most important thing like in a normal speech, but it&#8217;s important that you<br>identify what your take home message is so that you can write your humorous speech. So maybe<br>the take home message that you want to give relevant to our example here is that you can find<br>love in the most unexpected places! And once you figure out what this take home message you<br>want to give through your humorous speech is, then you can start writing the speech.<br>Next, when you write the speech, always make sure that you try to grab the attention of the<br>audience. So the stories that you have relating to your love life, make sure you express them in a<br>way that the audience will be amazed, and will be interested in your speech from the start till the<br>end. This is because in a humorous speech if you don&#8217;t retain the interest of the audience<br>throughout the speech, if the audience loses interest at one point, or doesn&#8217;t understand the humor<br>in your story, it&#8217;s going to partially be a failure. Writing and presenting a humorous speech is<br>harder than a normal speech because at the end of the day, normal speeches don&#8217;t have to<br>necessarily make the audience laugh, you just have to make sure you deliver a good message,<br>and that the speech you deliver is a proper and nice speech. But in humorous speeches, if the<br>audience doesn&#8217;t laugh or seem to enjoy the speech, then the whole point of the speech is going<br>to waste.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>So then, you have the theme, the sub theme, the stories you want to include in the speech relating<br>to the sub theme, and you have the small take home message in hand. Now what you have to do<br>is to arrange these stories in a humorous way so that in the end it connects to the message<br>you want to give. So in using humor to arrange these stories, some things are very important.<br>One of the most important things to keep in mind is to not use offensive humor. There are some<br>things you don&#8217;t joke about. For instance, a person\u2019s religion, gender identity, political beliefs, etc<br>since those things can be very sensitive and can be interpreted in very different ways, and<br>therefore, you should not use it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>Let&#8217;s draw from personal experience. I remember a speech competition I went to once, where I<br>mentioned that I attended a wedding that had a lot of shootings (photoshoots). Obvious next joke<br>right? Well I said that it reminded me of an American highschool, of course implying that it<br>actually reminded me of the school shootings that happened in America, which is somewhat like<br>dry humor, but at the same time i did not realize that it can be a little sensitive and even a bit dark<br>to joke about that. At the end of the speech (I did not win the competition), I got some<br>comments, and one such comment I got was that my humor might be a bit too offensive for some<br>people. Different people take humor in different ways, so we should always keep it in mind, to<br>not offend anyone. That is why the first thing you must do when preparing your speech with the<br>help of your stories, is to check for offensive humor, and make sure you don\u2019t offend people,<br>companies, anyone\u2019s beliefs or anything of the like. There are so many other ways in which you<br>can use humor without offending anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>Once you write the speech, you will have used a lot of jokes and its important to try to be as<br>authentic as possible because sometimes people quote stand up comedians, movies, and other<br>comedians and their jokes, and what they don\u2019t know is that though the judges might not know<br>the joke, and might not be familiar with it, the audience might be, so if you&#8217;re reusing a joke, and<br>not being original with your jokes, one thing is you&#8217;re plagiarizing, and the second thing is it&#8217;s<br>going to affect the authenticity of your speech, and people aren&#8217;t going to remember you as an<br>authentic speaker, but rather someone who steals other people\u2019s jokes, which in some countries is<br>even a crime as well. So avoid copying jokes, but you can always get inspired by other<br>comedians or other famous public speakers who do humorous speeches.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>Once you incorporate all that, you can write the speech. The problem that you might have is, \u201cI<br>don&#8217;t, have interesting things happening in my life, that I can put into stories, I don&#8217;t have funny<br>stories happening in my life, I have no experiences, my life is boring\u201d, and in that case, know<br>that your humorous speech doesn&#8217;t necessarily have to be about your life. You can talk about<br>what happened to other people. It doesn&#8217;t have to be in first person all the time. Yes, it will<br>always be better if you can apply your personal plight and stories to your speeches because they<br>are authentic to you, and are fresh, and can be an original experience for the listeners as well, but<br>if you don&#8217;t have personal experiences, it is possible to write about your friends, or you can even<br>write about general themes. For instance you can write about the Met Gala which you didn\u2019t<br>attend, in the third person point of view, in a humorous way. That is definitely possible and is<br>okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-black-color has-text-color\"><br>And now once you&#8217;re done writing the speech, comes the crucial part, which is practicing how<br>to give this speech. You cannot deliver humorous speeches the way you deliver a normal speech<br>or a normal international contest speech. Your comedic timing has to be close to perfect (nothing<br>is perfect!). Your vocal variations, if you can imitate voices, and people, if you can change roles, and<br>bring out the most dramatic aspect of the speech when performing, you&#8217;ll obviously grab the<br>attention of the audience and judges when speaking and it will give you a high chance of<br>winning the contest. Writing a humorous speech and performing a humorous speech are equally<br>important, which are the two things that you have to work on. Last but definitely not least, just<br>be yourself. Don&#8217;t try to bring out a different personality or try to imitate someone else, but be<br>yourself, because humor comes from within, so it&#8217;s always better to be truly you in front of the<br>stage, because people will love you for you and for your humor. Everyone has a unique sense of<br>humor, so bear in mind that you have to be you, when giving your humorous speech, so in that<br>way, you can create a brand for yourself<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A humorous speech is like a usual speech, just slightly ( or quite!) different. In humorousspeeches, the main purpose of the speech should be to ensure that the audience has fun andenjoys the speech, but otherwise, it would be just like a regular speech. 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